settle down
settling down. what it actually mean? and at what age we shld really be settling down? will we be able to really really settle down? hhmm...... seriously, i don have the answer myself.
why i bring up this topic was because, i just received an email from a very very long time friend. and what was written in the email somehow did bother me a little. here what was being said....
last but not list, just asking when are you tying your knot with your dream man? Just concern cos i, zxxx and fxxxxx have settle down,no hard feeling ya.Tulah dulu org sini nak org sana jual mahal kan sibuk blajar tinggi2 lama2 pun duduk
kat dapur,tul tak?
i mean... so what he and the ppl he mentioned have settle down. SO WHAT??? big deal issit? org nye suka ah nak settle down ker tak nak. and abt the thing that he 'wanted me'... that was, aiyoh... , so damn bloody long time ago. for what i can remember it was during our secondary sch time. i wldnt want to commit to someone whom i wasnt even sure i want to spend the rest of my sch days, and yet alone my whole life. oh gosh. what he is thinking is so lame. nowadays, guys go to the kitchen too. and it doesnt mean that only the wife will terperuk kat dapur. aiyoh..... kan dah bingit kejap. oh well, i wish him best of luck with his family.
last 2 days, while on the way back in the cab, my mum actually brought up the topic abt marriage. she actually said that she hope that i cld actually settle down within these two years. try not to be any later than that. and i was like... 'huh!!' she was never like that, but recently, keep on talking abt the same thing. kahwin kahwin kahwin.... camner nak kahwin kalau boyfriend pon tarak. i even told her, 'susah, susah, mak cari kan jer ler!! naz tak cerewet!' and with that she answered, 'tak kuasa ah. kau yg nak kahwin, gi cari sendiri.' hhmm.... i didnt say i was the on yg nak kahwin sangat. hhmm... macam macam ler my mum nie.
to me, marriage is the work of ALLAH. he will decide when we will actually get married to the one. to the right one. i know, we cant just solely put the job to ALLAH, we have to try searching for it too. but, nanti ler, kalau dah sampai masanya nak kahwin, besok pon boleh. hehhehe... insya-allah, one day....